HJG Sexual Integrity Mentor Training: Expanded Description

Welcome to the One-Year Sexual Integrity Mentor Training Subscription! This program is designed to equip Conservative Anabaptist men with the knowledge, tools, and confidence to mentor those struggling with unwanted sexual behaviors (USB).

A Message from Arthur Nisly

Hello Dear Brother,

Thanks for coming on this journey with me as I share how you can help men in our Conservative Anabaptist communities who struggle with unwanted sexual behavior. There are many men who struggle and many who are hungry for freedom. The need for mentors is both urgent and massive!

We here at Hope Journey Guide Mentoring are excited to introduce a mentor training program for people like you. This is a long-term dream come true! In this program, I’m going to share with you what I know about mentoring men struggling with sexual sin. You will join a small group of men and get the chance to ask questions and encourage each other to learn the key concepts. You will experience group support to actually begin to mentor others!

Who Is This Training For?

This course is for mature Christian leaders who:

  • Are Conservative Anabaptist church leaders or influencers

  • Have significant personal victory over unwanted sexual behaviors

  • Desire to mentor men but feel unsure about how to begin

(Note: If you are still struggling with USB, we recommend completing our 1-on-1 mentoring program first. Reach out to us if you are unsure where you fall.)

What is the Goal of this Training?

We want to take you from:

"I want to help men who struggle with sexual bondage, but I don’t know how..."

And take you to:

"If someone comes to me for help, I will step out in faith, trusting God to empower me, because I now have the tools, experience, and structure to guide them."

How Effective is This Training?

After our pilot program in May 2022, five out of six participants reported that they gained the skills and confidence needed to mentor others effectively. Each training cycle improves based on feedback, making this program stronger with every group.

What Past Participants Say:

  • “It was an excellent launching pad, giving the necessary tools and structure to effectively, confidentially walk with men in life-changing ways to find freedom.”

  • “The content gave me confidence to help other men that are struggling in sexual sin. Tools and methods were shared that helped me know where to start walking with men and how to encourage them to live a pure life. The camaraderie of the group was great!”

  • “It was a real bonding experience to share with brothers from various backgrounds on the subject of sexual bondage and how to break free. If you have a heart to help men find freedom from sexual bondage, I would highly recommend Arthur's mentor training.”

What’s Included?

First 6 Months:

  • Online Platform Access: You will get access to CoachAccountable, the online platform that we use to mentor men, which includes access to dozens of useful files on many different recovery themes.

  • On-Demand Learning Opportunities: Access to 24/7 learning materials to support your recovery journey.

  • 12 Live Trainings: All participants will attend twelve 90-minute sessions that occur every other Monday evening (twice a month) for six months

  • Interactive Group: We limit the training group size to ten people so that everyone can participate fully enough to benefit from the training.

  • Session Recordings: Recordings will be available for the sessions that you miss. Additionally, some teachings are broken into smaller sections (a ten-minute clip on how to handle X situation, for instance) so that you can review them topically. No personal stories will be recorded.

  • Safe Story Space: You will be able to tell your own story in a safe place with others who will do the same thing. Each of us will tell our own story with sexual struggle. This helps us to be compassionate with strugglers who need to come forward with their stories. Telling our story in a safe, confidential group empowers us to overcome the negative aspects of shame and use the power of our story to make sexual struggle a subject that is safe to talk about with others.

  • Story Crafting: We will teach you how to use your own story as a powerful tool to connect with and to help ‘strugglers’ dare to trust you.

  • Deep Understanding of Sexual Addiction: Gain a comprehensive understanding of issues related to sexual addiction.

  • Connection with Other Men: Build deep, meaningful connections with men who share similar goals and values.

  • Monthly Zoom and Telegram Support: Join a monthly one-hour Zoom meeting and an exclusive Telegram chat group for ongoing support, connecting with current participants and alumni.

  • Practical Tools for Success: Learn practical tools and habits that help men achieve lasting success in their recovery journey.

  • Adaptable Training Content: Gain confidence in using this training content to help men 1-on-1 or in small groups, empowering you to make a real difference.

  • ‘Stop-Acting Out’ Tools: Learn valuable tools and self-awareness concepts to help men stop sinful habits and achieve moral purity.

  • Church Leadership Topics: Engage in discussions on church-related topics like discipline, public confessions, and creating safe environments for members to seek help.

  • Growing Confidence in Helping Others: Develop confidence to be a supportive friend for those striving for freedom, relying on the Holy Spirit for strength and guidance.

Second 6 Months:

  • Direct Input: Applicable to all twelve months of the training, Arthur will be available to answer questions / give advice about specific, confidential (individual or church) situations that you are facing. He will help you think through the biblical principles that will guide you to know how to handle tough situations in redemptive ways.

  • Monthly Teaching & Discussion: Arthur will offer in-depth monthly teaching on a specific subject related to sexual integrity and then facilitate discussion around that theme for a total of one hour.

  • Independent Mentee Sign-Up Option: Gain extra access to CoachAccountable to help people in your community or church. Once you have learned how our platform works, we will give you the option to have people sign up under you, gaining access to features such as journaling, whiteboards, appointments, and Crash Reports. It’s free for you, and only a small fee for the mentee (to cover platform access). Required that you will actually use it for this option to apply.

  • Prayer Partner Option: If you have a flexible schedule we may be able to arrange to have you sit in on Arthur’s 1-on-1 Zoom sessions as a Prayer Partner with someone who trusts you! Arthur will try to match you with someone who is just starting to meet with me and who come from a similar church background.

    In Arthur’s words: “You will experience this powerful and intense learning experience! I am confident that you will never be the same afterward! You will gain the confidence that you need to help others walk in freedom! The church needs many more men who mentor men 1-on-1! Even if you don't anticipate doing online meetings with people it will help you to confidently help men locally!”

Ongoing Access:

  • Join a private Telegram group of trained mentors for continued support and resource sharing.

  • Access our monthly alumni Zoom meetings for encouragement and training updates.

Requirements

  • Reliable internet connection

  • Zoom app installed on your laptop or phone

  • A private, confidential space for active participation

  • A willingness to step into this role with courage and faith

Investment

  • Cost: $1,595 for the full year (or 3 bi-monthly payments of $550, totaling at $1,650.)

  • Money-Back Guarantee: Full refund available within one week of the first session if the program is not a good fit

  • Time Commitment: 4 sessions of 30 minutes per week for content review and preparation

Next Training Start Dates

A new season/training cohort starts each May and September. Spots are given on a first-come-first-serve basis. If a group is full, you may be waitlisted for a future training season. There are currently just four slots left for the nearest training. Select the cohort you are interested in joining!

  • September, 2025

  • May, 2026

Still Have Questions?

If you have questions that we haven’t answered about this strategic opportunity, please set up a free 45-minute appointment here. This will give you access to my calendar even though this link is usually used for another purpose.

Ready to Commit?

We are eager to train you! Sign up today, and we will send you further details and an invoice through our coaching platform.

Contact Us

Hope Journey Guide Mentoring & Mentor Training
Arthur Nisly
1414 E. 9th Ave.
Hutchinson, KS 67501
Phone/Text: (620) 727-0353
Email: HopeJourneyGuide@gmail.com
Website: www.HopeJourneyGuide.com